Finding peace, patience, and community in a world that never stops rushing
There really are many benefits to living in a small town. It’s something you don’t fully understand until you’ve lived it — until your days slow down enough that you can actually feel time moving instead of chasing it.
In a small town like Metlakatla Indian Community, safety isn’t just a statistic. It’s a feeling. You walk outside at night and breathe easier. You know the faces you pass. You recognize the vehicles. Kids grow up with a kind of freedom that feels rare in bigger cities — riding bikes, wandering the shoreline, learning independence without constant fear hanging over every moment.
There’s no big-city hustle here. No endless traffic. No pressure to always be rushing somewhere. Life moves slower — MUCH slower — and while that takes some getting used to, it can be a gift. Groceries arrive when they arrive. Mail shows up when the weather and transportation allow. Plans adjust. Expectations soften. And over time, you learn to match that rhythm instead of fighting it.
At first, the pace can feel frustrating. You might find yourself watching the clock, waiting for shipments, counting days. But eventually something shifts. You stop measuring life in minutes and start measuring it in moments. Conversations last longer. Sunsets feel more important. A simple trip to the store turns into a dozen friendly check-ins.
Of course, small-town life isn’t perfect.
The downside? Everyone knows everyone — and sometimes everyone knows your business. Privacy can feel thin. News travels fast. Opinions travel even faster. For many people, that can be a real pain in the behind. There’s no disappearing into a crowd here. Your good days are visible. Your bad days are too.
But strangely enough, that same closeness that can feel suffocating can also be comforting. When something goes wrong, people notice. When you struggle, someone shows up. When you succeed, the celebration is shared. Community isn’t just a word — it’s a living thing that wraps around you whether you ask for it or not.
Living in a small town teaches patience. It teaches resilience. It teaches you how to live with people, not just around them. You learn that convenience isn’t everything. That speed isn’t always progress. That sometimes the richest life is the one that gives you time to breathe.
And once you’ve learned that rhythm — once your heart syncs with the slower pace — it becomes hard to imagine living any other way.
Notes from Alex 